svetikya Chapter 327: Using a Child to Tie a Man's Heart
Chapter 327: Using a Child to Tie a Man's Heart
"In that case, her second son's stomach won't be able to take it." Shen Li frowned.
"Yes, her second child has diarrhea every day, and he is skinny and small, and obviously not developing well. We all advised her not to work so hard, and it would be better for her to stay at home and take care of the children. Raising the two children is more important than anything else. But she wouldn't listen, and there was nothing we could do."
"What kind of financial difficulties could have made her abandon her two children? Is there someone in her family who is seriously ill?" Shen Li couldn't help but ask.
"That's not the case. Her parents-in-law are both healthy," said Zhang Ye's wife. "Her partner doesn't give her the money he earns, so she has to make money on her own."
"Her boyfriend doesn't give her the money he earns and leaves her to support the family alone?" Shen Li frowned.
Such a man is too irresponsible.
"She used to give it to him, but later..." Zhang Ye sighed, "Later, her husband found out that she had given most of the family's money to her parents, so he stopped giving it to her."
"Before that, her husband and she had saved money for about ten years, but when her brother was getting married, she took all the money in the family to give to her brother."
"Originally, the money was saved by her husband and her after 10 years of frugality. They had originally planned to use it to buy a house in the county town, but in the end, all the money was gone and given to her brother. Since then, her husband has never given her money again."
Originally Shen Li wanted to scold Yang Yuping's man for being a bad guy, but now it seems that Yang Yuping is a brother-supporting demon.
How could this person be so pessimistic?
"Then she is making money now for..." Shen Li said.
"What else could it be? It's for her brother and her family." Zhang Ye looked sympathetic. "Her parents are not easy to deal with. When they found out that she married an officer on an island, they thought she had a good life as an officer, so they asked her for money every now and then."
"Every month, before she even gets paid, her parents take all her salary away."
"Her current father is not her biological father. He was found by her mother after her biological father died. I don't know if her mother was instigated by her father, but she kept forcing her to give her money. She had no choice but to work in the factory to earn money. She earned money during the day and took care of the children at night. She was so tired that she looked more than ten years older!"
Zhang Ye knew Yang Yuping. They both came to the island at about the same time. They had a pretty good relationship and therefore knew a little about Yang Yuping.
"Then won't her parents-in-law help her look after the two children?" Shen Li frowned.
"She gave all the family money to her parents. Her parents-in-law felt that Yang Yuping's lover was badly cheated by her and they wished they would divorce! How could they help her take care of the children? I guess her parents-in-law must hate her to death."
"What about her biological mother? After taking so much of her hard-earned money, can't she help her look after the child?"
"Her own mother complains all day long about arm or leg pain. She is always busy with this or that. She is also waiting for her brother's wife to give birth to a child and has no time to take care of her. She has no other choice but to lock the two children at home and go out to work to earn money." Zhang Ye sighed, "Yuping's life is so hard."
"Since there is no one to help take care of the children, but she is still pregnant... How can she take care of three children when the time comes?" Shen Li couldn't understand, "When the babies are born, will she take care of three children by herself and stop working, or will she continue to keep the children at home and go out to work?"
In this case, wouldn't the eldest child have to take care of the second and third children?
The eldest child is only three or four years old. Such a child should have grown up happily and safely, but he has to carry the other two children. How can a child bear such a heavy burden and shackles?
Besides, the eldest child is so young, how can he take care of the other two children?
She was so small and lacked the knowledge to take care of a child...
Newborn babies are fragile to begin with, and it’s difficult for inexperienced adults to take care of them, let alone the child…
"That's probably the case..." Zhang Ye said.
"This is simply irresponsible to the children," Shen Li said. "If there is no one to take care of the children, then don't have so many. If you give birth to the children and then leave them aside without taking care of them, let alone giving them love and companionship, even the most basic food and clothing can't be solved. What's the point of having so many children?"
Not everyone in this world is qualified to be a mother.
Just like Yang Yuping’s mother, and just like Yang Yuping herself.
They are not good mothers.
Yang Yuping's two daughters and unborn child also suffered a lot.
It's like a vicious cycle.
"The couple were planning on getting a divorce during that time, but Yang Yuping and her boyfriend were high school classmates. She loved her boyfriend very much and was reluctant to divorce him, so she wanted to tie him down with a child." Zhang Ye said, "Her boyfriend had always wanted a boy, so she thought that if she gave birth to a boy, her boyfriend would not divorce her, and her parents-in-law would be more pleased with her. So right after she finished her confinement, she pestered her boyfriend to do it again... until she got pregnant..."
Can you really tie a man's heart by relying on a child?
This is not only irresponsible to her child, but also to her own body.
I got pregnant again right after the confinement period. I'm afraid my body hasn't been well taken care of...
"I also think she gets pregnant too frequently." Zhang Ye said. She looked around to see if there was anyone around and continued in a low voice, "Sister Li, I'm not afraid of you making fun of me. I gave birth to two children in three years. Even though I gave birth relatively frequently, I often leak urine when I sneeze or cough. I usually don't dare to run or jump for fear of leaking urine."
"Urine leakage is a phenomenon of pelvic floor muscle relaxation," Shen Li looked at Zhang Ye sympathetically, "Generally speaking, if you have given birth to a child, or if you have given birth to many children, this situation is more likely to occur."
"A good friend of mine from my hometown also had this problem." Zhang Ye lowered his voice and said, "Not only that, sometimes when I squat to poop, when I use force, a lump of flesh will fall out from below..."
"I have to quickly plug that piece of meat with paper."
Shen Li felt a chill in her heart when she heard this, and she felt a little sad.
"The piece of meat you are talking about is the uterus," said Shen Li.
This is a case of uterine prolapse.
It is also a kind of postpartum problem that women have after giving birth.
In the future, there will be many postpartum rehabilitation programs aimed at the rehabilitation of rectus abdominis separation (that is, a loose belly), pelvic floor muscle relaxation (that is, urinary incontinence), and uterine prolapse.
But in this era, technology is not yet popular and developed, and women can only endure and suffer such problems after giving birth.
"That should be the case. I was thinking, I'm already like this after giving birth to two children, and Yuping is still trying for a third child. If she gives birth to all the children, will she be fine?" Zhang Ye said distressedly, "Although some women are fine after giving birth to three children, it's different for different people. I see Yuping has aged a lot over the years! She used to be so beautiful, with fair skin and a good figure. Now her skin has turned yellow, her hair has become thinner, she has more wrinkles, and she has become fatter... She is completely different from before."